Raise Your Child to become Empathetic Leaders
Build your child’s character by laying solid foundations every single day. Your child learns how to take perspectives, understand others and help others — through you.
Hello, I’m so glad you are here!
I’m Eshlyn, and it’s so nice to meet you. :)
Ten years ago, when I started my journey as an educator, I knew so little about child development. I was like you - using traditional methods to gain control. I would be raising my voice in the class, thinking that fear is the way to gain control of my classroom. At the end of the day, I asked myself, “Why am I so exhausted?” and “Why do I keep losing my voice?”
Since then, I started gaining more experiences - studying, researching, learning from experienced mentors, and I finally found my ground.
Now, I am able to connect with children without any form fear, manipulation, or the need to control.
Each interaction with every child is joyful, playful and children will follow my instructions without complains and resistance. They go back home calling my name, “Teacher Eshlyn, Teacher Eshlyn”.
Many parents asked me “How do you do it?”.
This is why the 1:1 Coaching Program is created from my heart. It is for children who often feel misunderstood, mishandled, unheard and unseen.
Everything is designed from your child’s perspective — mind, body and heart.
Raising your child to become an empathetic leader is not an unforeseeable future — it is possible for you.
1:1 Coaching with Eshlyn
Raising Empathetic Leaders through Conscious Parenting
I am better able to communicate efficiently with my kids. I was scared to try, but after trying Eshlyn’s methods, my kids are able to understand me and follow my instructions better now!
— Inggrid (Mum of two children aged 2.5 and 3.5)
Empathetic (adj) — putting yourself easily and completely in another person’s shoes
In today’s world, we don’t need more people with high IQ but also high in EQ. We want our children to have the ability to share another person’s feelings or emotions as if they were their own.
Moving away from individualism and towards community building.
Here are some examples:
When your child shares at age 3, your child will think of others before self at age 13. When your child learns to assert themselves as toddlers, your child will find their own identity as teenagers.
Becoming empathetic is a virtue that your child can grow into and it starts right now.
Conscious (adj) — awake, thinking and knowing what is happening around you
Conscious parenting is when you’re aware of what you say to your child by speaking to your child’s heart, mind and will, being firm and setting boundaries and at the same time, learning to let go and follow your child’s lead.
Consciously parenting your child is when you take a paradigm shift from your old parenting styles to a new way of parenting.
Click below to learn more about the 1:1 coaching program!
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What Mummies are Saying
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"I am better able to communicate efficiently with my kids. I was scared to try, but after trying Eshlyn’s methods, my kids are able to understand me and follow my instructions better now!"
Inggrid
Mummy of two children aged 2.5 and 3.5 -
"I feel I understand my daughter better and knowing there’s always an underlying reason for her behaviour makes me more willing to be patient with her. Eshlyn has good advice to give and always have a solution for every problem."
Felicia
Mummy of 13-month-old daughter -
"Now, I enjoy moments with my son. I have strategies to manage him when he’s having a meltdown. Using the communication method, Eshlyn helped me to see other alternatives."
Sylvia
Mummy of 8-month-old son